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Q: How do you eat an elephant?
(See answer at the end of the post)
“I can do something for 12 hours that would appall me if I had to keep it up for a lifetime.” –Unknown
Clutter doesn’t accumulate overnight. It starts out small, maybe a paper or two on the counter. Or with a few pairs of shoes thrown together haphazardly near the door.
In 2010, I was 45 years old and weighed nearly 250 lbs. I was morbidly obese level III.
The weight did not pile on overnight. It was years of bad decision-making.
Losing 100+ pounds was also not an overnight process. It took just about two years of solid, good-decision making, several times a day, every day.
And so it is with clutter. Just as an accumulation of stuff doesn’t happen overnight, de-cluttering is a process that takes time. Sometimes it’s swift, other times it’s a bit longer.
Very few people enjoy the work of losing weight. The thought of having to stick to a daily discipline every dayt for the rest of my life scared the bejeezus out of me. But a very good spiritual mentor said to me, “Try it for your next meal.” I did that, and it worked. Then she said to me, “Try it for just one day.” Seven + years later, I am still doing it one day at a time.
And so it is with clutter. The thought of clearing a room of our excess stuff is overwhelming. We open our closet door and moan:
Where do I even start?
First, we decide.
Start by making a decision. That’s it. Deciding to clear the clutter is the first step in a good, orderly direction.
Is your closet a mess? Our usual inclination is to tackle the whole closet in a day or a weekend. That’s too overwhelming. Start with something small, specific and do-able. For example, last season’s shoes. You recently stopped wearing them, so they are fresh in your mind. You know what you wore most and what you didn’t wear at all. What needs fixing and what does not.
Starting with something small, specific and do-able is your next step in a good, orderly direction.
Next, we take action.
As with most project the first thing to do is gather supplies.
Before you begin, get 3 bins or containers. Usually a laundry basket sized container will do
A Keep Bin. Put shoes that fit, that you love and that are in good condition in here.
A Trash Bin. Any shoes that have worn out soles/ heels, broken straps, etc. go in here.
A Donate Bin. Shoes that are still in good, wearable condition but you don’t want them anymore go in here. Then donate them right away.
Use a timer, either a kitchen timer or one on your phone for starters. Time, like storage bins, is a container. It has a beginning, middle and end.
Try 15 minutes. Quite a bit of work can be done in that short time. As you work, you might find you need more time to finish the task. That’s okay. Work 15 minutes, break for 5.
Rinse and repeat. Do this until you are done with the task. You might finish in one day, or several. That’s still okay. In the end, you have only the shoes you love AND you will have blessed others by donating pairs you no longer wear. It’s a win-win.
Answer: One bite at a time.
Supplies I like:
Time Timer: www.timetimer.com
The Drop-front Shoe Box from the Container Store makes shoe storage and retrieval amazingly easy. AND THEY ARE STACKABLE! No more tumbling down shoe boxes when trying to get just one pair!